3 Nights In Vegas…

April 28th, 2010

Hey everyone…I’m in the middle of a 10 day swing through Montana, Nevada, Illinois and North Carolina. Here in Las Vegas, if you haven’t been, it’s a fascinating culture. You see the best and the worst that humanity has to offer. The richest of the rich and the poorest of the poor.

Las Vegas is a people watcher’s fantasy and a germophobe and anti-smoker’s worst satanic nightmare. (I fall under the category of all 3.) I don’t think I’ve ever seen so many people sneeze and cough in their hands, then grab a door handle or their poker chips and cards…all 3 of which I inevitably must touch. FILTHY! Ladies and germs, please take note…you can sneeze and cough into your sleeve or a kleenex and not directly into your hand. It’s new, it’s hip…try it! :)

While here, I’m staying at Excalibur and I took a video of my room with some idea of how I live on the road. See you all from Illinois tomorrow!

South Carolina Association of Student Councils’ Wrap Up

March 29th, 2010

Talking about my speech for the State Student Council Conference in Sotuh Carolina and how to tweak a speech to maximize its impact.

Walking through the Atlanta airport…

March 26th, 2010

I don’t think anyone looked at me funny, but who knows? :) I am on my way down to keynote the State Student Council Conference in South Carolina!

My first Vlog from home! It’s finally here!

March 24th, 2010

10 Days in the U.S.

October 18th, 2009

The longest speaking trip I’ve ever had was 3 years ago when I spent 21 days in Alberta and Montana doing 28 speeches and 9 workshops over that time. Looking back, I just can’t even fathom spending 3 full weeks on the road. I just got back from 10 days in Oregon, Wisconsin, Maryland and West Virginia and that was enough to make me feel ready to pass out for a month.

All in all, I have to say that this trip was probably the most successful lengthy trip I’ve ever had. Sure I had the usual problems that come up on a trip of this length…lost luggage the first night; 2nd trip my luggage was opened by United Airlines and my new fav. shirt was ruined by rain; etc., etc. But overall, it was terrific! I had exceptional audiences at each stop.

The only slightly disappointing audience was at Kent Island High School in Maryland. This was my 3rd year in a row speaking for their school. They were quiet, though very attentive. Don’t get me wrong, if they’re the worst audience I have over 10 days, then I’m doing something right and I am VERY happy with how things are going. It’s just that when you return to a school year after year you want to be constantly getting better. It was like an experience I had this August when I returned to Orchard Park Secondary School in Stoney Creek, Ontario. I had spoken there last year for their grade 9 Orientation and they brought me back again this year. Following my speech, the Principal came up and said to me, “last year you were good. This year you were GREAT. Polished and professional. We’ll see you next year.” It’s THAT type of response you achieve to see each year. Where the bar is raised. But I digresse…

The student response following the speech was much higher than it’s been in recent years. I changed to a different business card with my Facebook, MySpace and Twitter contacts on it and that really seems to have helped boost student feedback after shows. I heard back from dozens at each spot along the way culminating in the big finish at the West Virginia Association of Student Councils’ State Conference.

This was my 3rd State Conference in the last 11 months as I had previously keynoted the SADD and RAZE-ON (tobacco prevention) Conferences in West Virgnia. Amazingly there was only 1 student in a crowd of 250+ that had heard me at the other conferences. The students were fantastic. I had a chance to work with them over the coruse of 3 days through my speech and some workshops and it was great to see some of them soaking in the student council information and asking me about application principles for their events. Again, if I could work with these type of students every day for the next 20 years, life would be a breeze! Great students and I’m looking forward to returning to some West Virginia schools in February when I’m in Maryland for the State Student Council Conference.

A couple of final observations from the road:
1) I was forced to eat a bit more fast food than I wanted due to airport travel, but with the packing of some flax seed bagels and peanut butter, I managed to return from my trip with ZERO pounds gained!

2) At the WVASC Conference I realized how big of a crutch cell phones are. I still use a cell from 2002 with zero pictures, poor texting and internet capabilities so perhaps I just don’t understand the addiction. But playing the bad guy, if I were running a Conference, I would confiscate the cell phones for 3 days. Students (and staff) use it as a crutch. It distracts from sessions and takes away from their ability to connect to students AT the Conference. Will there be an uproar? I would expect the pitchforks to be out in full #’s, but would it be a worthwhile experiment? I believe so. As I say in my workshops…”until you try it once, you can’t tell me it won’t work.”

Hook ‘Em Horns

October 18th, 2009

My first big trip of the 2009-2010 school year took place over the past week with a trip down to Texas and New Mexico. I had been highly anticipating my speech in Texas because it was going to be my 2nd time working with the Texas Association of Student Councils and my first speech in my 10 year career that was geared exclusively to adults/staff advisors. The event was the TASC Annual Student Council and Honor Society Advisors Workshop and with over 400 potential contacts in the room this was about the biggest opportunity I had had since speaking for the National Student Council Conference in Kansas in 2007.

On the Saturday I had a booth set up where I got to mingle with the staff members and chat them up about my workshops, speeches, etc. but then had to back it up with my workshop. I was given a room that held about 70 people and I was blown away by the response, because by the time I began we were well past standing-room only and people had to watch from outside the room. We were breaking fire codes people…and LOVING it!

When the workshop ended, I couldn’t believe the response. Within about 2 hours, I had legitimate offers to come back to Texas 3 times before the end of 2009! One on October 17 for a District Student Council Conference in Dallas, one in San Antonio November 13 and the other for a District Conference in Corpus Christi December 5. It certainly looks like this Canadian will be getting some Texas sun before the year is done!

Healthy Living…

August 22nd, 2009

In order to put my health transition into perspective, I feel like I need to give you a bit of backdrop to the story. I’ve never been a healthy, overly active person. Ever. I was always active with student council-type activities, but never with physically demanding workouts. From an eating perspective, let me explain my diet during my High School/University years:

In High School, breakfast rarely existed. It would mean losing an extra 10 minutes sleep, so forget breakfast. Lunch was probably Kraft Dinner (Mac & Cheese for you Americans) and dinner was probably fish sticks and fries, hot dogs, pizza or A LOT of McDonalds Quarter Pounder combos. I had been sick with stomach viruses in my last year of High School and somehow, despite my horrendous diet, I spent most of the year hovering at around 105 lbs. Yes, that’s right, I was underweight for a girl.

In University, all alone at Western and with a massive meal card to play with, I ate a burger and fries combo every single day. Not 5 days a week or 6…no, every single day! Every 2 days I had a personal pan pizza and every week I would split a large Dominoes pepperoni pizza with 1 of 3 people. That was my diet. Have you vomited yet?

I don’t mention these items to brag about what a sexy metabolism I had but merely to illustrate the point that health and healthy living was about as far off the radar as Jack and Kate and the Island on Lost. By the time my 1st year at Western was done I had surpassed the Frosh-15 and was up to 135 lbs.

As my University years progressed, I began adding some health to the meals. I was eating my world-famous GCP (Grilled-Chicken Pasta with veggies, no sauce) almost every night of the week and was only having burger combos once to twice a week. Still though, the overall health of what I was eating was not great and I still was getting little exercise (walking to and from campus about 15 mins. each way).

Since my graduation in 2004, my weight had fluctuated between 140 to 145 and I never seemed to be able to do enough to bring it down. I had made strides to change my diet more dramatically over the last year, introducing salmon, shrimp and tilapia as replacements for beef, ribs and even chicken on occasion. My bagels and bread became whole grain instead of white and an apple became an almost regular part of my lunch. Despite these changes (which as you can imagine, are HUGE for someone with a ridiculous diet like I once had), I still couldn’t drop the weight. This was due mostly to still snacking with cookies, ice cream and of course….MCDONALDS!

As I had been feeling my age of late, realizing I’m closer to 30 than I am to 20, this year brought some personal self-image concerns. I wasn’t pleased with the extra spare-tire I was lugging around, how tired I was after speeches and travel, my inability to get through a 60 minute squash game without huffing and puffing and seeing stars. For a couple months I had been saying to myself, I’ve got to do some more dramatic, impactful changes. I’m a Motivational Speaker for crying out loud!!!! MOTIVATE YOURSELF!

My breaking point came when I went to wear a new pair of pants I bought during my last speaking road trip in the U.S. I bought a pair of pants that fit fine when I bought them in early May. They were…comfortable. The first week of July I had a birthday party to attend and I decided it was time to bust out these sexy new pants and show em off. I could barely close the button. When I did, my gut hung over it like Homer Simpson in a bathing suit. Enough was enough.

The next day I decided it was time to take positive steps forward towards my goal of weight loss instead of taking negative steps backwards. I wasn’t going to diet, drop meals from my diet or be unhealthy. I was going to for once, take care of my body and turn it into the system of health it deserves to be. So what did I do? I thought about each facet of my life where destructive steps backwards could be replaced with positive forward steps. I began working out. That’s right. Me. David Major. No really. I ran. I actually got on a treadmill and ran!

I ran 20 minutes a day (not including warm-up/cool down) every other day. Within 3 weeks I was up to running 30 minutes a day and had even increased my speed. I was running on average 3.5 miles per day or close to a marathon every 2 weeks. With each workout I was burning 300-400 calories plus firing my metabolism up for hours following the workout. Because I was trying to target my gut, following each workout I would also do between 150-200 ab exercises to really focus on toning the area. Between prepping for the workout and showering the sweat off, the whole process takes 60-75 minutes. Well, well worth it.

My diet barely changed. The key difference was cutting out the extras and limiting the type of snacking I was doing. When my transition began, we had 2 boxes of cookies in the house. 10 weeks later, we still have 2 full boxes of cookies! My caloric intake for the day is supposed to be 2100-2200 calories. I found myself eating closer to 1300-1400 calories/day. Not because I was starving myself, but I was actually eating MORE!! AND more often! The difference was WHAT I was eating. My bagels and bread switched to flax instead of whole grain or the dreaded white (cue evil music). Pasta dinners were reduced to once per week instead of the 2-3 previously and were replaced with an extra fish dinner usually served with couscous or quinoa (ever heard of Quinoa? Neither had I. Google it! It’s a superfood). My McD/Harveys/Burger King trips were cut down to 1 every 2 weeks or so; pizza is almost completely out and hot dogs have been twice since the summer began. No ribs (I miss my ribs) and only 1 steak. The cookies stayed in their box because the biggest change was the introduction of a massive amount of fruit into the diet. Whereas previously in the house we may have apples and bananas, we now had those plus watermelon, strawberries, canteloupe and blueberries. Ice cream was replaced with fruit smoothies. Mmmmm smoothies!

My goal at the start of the summer was to drop 5 pounds. 8 weeks later and I’m down 10-11 pounds having hit 130 on the scale this morning. My pants don’t fit…at all. I’ve had to add another hole into my belt and my pants still fall down. If you see me on tour giving a speech, you may notice my sport coats look 2 sizes too big and that my pants look like they’re falling off me…they are (and they are). So I suppose the only disadvantage is that I now need to replace my wardrobe. Of course though, it is a well worthwhile sacrifice of $$$ for health and fitness.

The most important aspect of all this is to keep in mind that I don’t consider what I’ve done to be a diet, I consider it a lifestyle change. I’ve decided for once to take control of my body and my health. I’m in the best shape of my life with my resting heart rate hovering somewhere in the 51-54 beats per minute range and I feel like I have more energy than ever. I also personally feel so much better about myself. When you feel comfortable looking in the mirror, you feel good about yourself. However, even if you look good, you may not be HEALTHY. Putting the right food in your body and spending the right amount of time working out are vital not just to your health but your own personal perception of sense of worth. Feelings of worth are often linked with your own physical appearance and so I encourage all readers in blog land to take ownership of your own bodies.

So what does this all mean? Well, over the months to come, I hope to hear from all of you about workouts, foods, etc. that you use to keep yourself in shape. What works for you? What doesn’t? What motivational problems do you have with healthy living? Do you find it easy to MOTIVATE YOURSELF to workout? If so, what’s your secret? Etc., etc.

Like I said, I’ve made a lifestyle transition and my hope is that this blog can do the same for others!

Where have I been all summer?

August 13th, 2009

Next week I have my first speech on my 10th season of Motivational Speaking and it’s hard to believe that the summer is almost over! This has to have been one of my busiest and yet most bland summers of recent memory. I didn’t do much in terms of outdoors activities, vacations, etc. Spent a night camping, a night at a cottage, but outside of that it has been WORK, WORK, WORK!

I’ve always made the claim that the summer is my busiest time despite the fact that I don’t actually do any speeches and there’s no doubt that this has been the case. The past few weeks I’ve been working 15 hour days, 7 days a week in an effort to get the schedule booked up for the year. I’m happy to say I have some MAJOR (haha pun) speeches booked for the new year including a trip to Texas for the Texas Association of Student Councils’ Annual Advisors’ Workshop. This will mark my first advisors exclusive Conference and I am VERY excited! It’s a new field to break into and should be a great group of people to work with over a weekend. I’ll also be giving a talk to advisors at the Maryland Association of Student Councils’ (ASC) State Conference in February when I keynote for the crowd and potentially for West Virginia’s ASC in October. If the West Virginia Conference comes through, it will mark my 3rd time in less than a year that I’ve been the keynote for a MAJOR (haha) Conference in West Virginia, having spoken for the SADD Conference last fall and RAZE (tobacco prevention) in June. It looks like it’s going to be the year of the advisor as I’m also in discussions with California to bring me out for the California Activity Directors Association (CADA) for their spring Conference in Reno–no Vegas, but somehow I’ll manage! :)

All in all, I’m excited. Some great opportunities in some great new places and a great opportunity to improve myself as a speaker and as a fountain of student leadership information. My goals for my 10th year are 100 speeches in 20 different States/Provinces and to develop 1 new speech…a combo healthy living/Motivate Yourself talk that will combine my original speech and my new passion…HEALTHY LIVING! To find out more about my newfound love of working out and eating right, tune in next time…

Back to the grind!

News and Notes…

June 2nd, 2009

I’m about a week into my promotional season and I’m already starting to get a sense for what’s going to work and what won’t. There seem to be a few States that have REALLY been hit hard by the economic crisis. More than I had anticipated. So now, my job becomes about getting creative to make sure that finances don’t get in the way of working with students.

I’ve decided I’m going to try to focus a little more on Leadership Conferences for the 2009-2010 school year. While you’re already dealing with partially if not fully Motivated students, there just seems to be such a vast array of Conferences that need speakers. So why not me? :)

2 weeks until I head down to West Virginia and I’m looking forward to getting as much accomplished as possible in terms of bookings prior to the Conference. I’ve always maintained that this job could keep me busy 24/7, 365 days a year and currently I don’t think I’ve ever as strongly agreed with that statement as I do today. It’s almost like a, “where do I begin?” mentality. But as always, I await the challenge!

A few quick observations and notes:

  • Tragic news about Air France. It very eerily reminds me of Lost and is the reason I’m still not a perfectly comfortable flyer.
  • Sacha Baron Cohen is a brilliant marketer. Whether the stunt at the MTV Movie Awards was staged or real, everyone will talk about it all week.
  • Conan O’Brien is the best sketch comic on late night. Colbert is still my favourite, but it was great to have Conan back last night.
  • If the Toronto Blue Jays are any indication, you’re never as good as when you’re going good and you’re never as bad as when you’re going bad. That’s why it’s so important to stay grounded and self aware.

    Have a great and productive day everyone!

  • First speech in Toronto…

    May 28th, 2009

    Yesterday morning I had the opportunity to speak at Annette Street Public School in Toronto, Ontario. I live about 10 minutes outside of the city of Toronto, but amazingly over the course of the last 9 years, this was my 1st speech at a Toronto public school!! For some reason over the years it has been easier to be booked in California, the North West Territories or even China than into a Toronto public school, so this was a really big treat for me. I’m not sure what has caused the delay, but my best guess is a lack of funds within the School Board.

    The task yesterday was a keynote speech to kick off Career Day for the grade 7’s and 8’s, followed by 2 workshops on public speaking. During the second public speaking workshop I had one of the coolest experiences of my speaking career. As a speaker, I’m used to students chatting with their friends in the audience from time to time. You just use a few different techniques to try to silence them and regain their focus. Yesterday, one of the students in the workshop was trying to talk to his friend, but his friend actually kept shushing him and telling him to stop talking. Normally, I would have stepped in, but I was so fascinated by this other students response that I was curious to see what would happen. After about 15 minutes of on and off attempts to engage his friend in conversation, the student being harassed actually got up from his seat and sat in a seat away from his friend and the distraction. This was unbelievable to me, but exactly what my speech that morning was all about. My speech discusses the ideas of Motivating Yourself to make the right decision and pushing yourself to do so. I can only imagine that this was a diffuclt decision to walk away from his friend, but he did the right thing and for the betterment of himself as well as the workshop as a whole.

    Never in my 9 years of speaking, have I seen someone walk away from a chatter, but at Annette Street Public School, I got to see intelligent decision making from a 13 or 14 year old. After the workshop I took him aside and commended him for his actions and he said he just did what he thought was right. Bravo!