Yesterday morning I had the opportunity to speak at Annette Street Public School in Toronto, Ontario. I live about 10 minutes outside of the city of Toronto, but amazingly over the course of the last 9 years, this was my 1st speech at a Toronto public school!! For some reason over the years it has been easier to be booked in California, the North West Territories or even China than into a Toronto public school, so this was a really big treat for me. I’m not sure what has caused the delay, but my best guess is a lack of funds within the School Board.
The task yesterday was a keynote speech to kick off Career Day for the grade 7’s and 8’s, followed by 2 workshops on public speaking. During the second public speaking workshop I had one of the coolest experiences of my speaking career. As a speaker, I’m used to students chatting with their friends in the audience from time to time. You just use a few different techniques to try to silence them and regain their focus. Yesterday, one of the students in the workshop was trying to talk to his friend, but his friend actually kept shushing him and telling him to stop talking. Normally, I would have stepped in, but I was so fascinated by this other students response that I was curious to see what would happen. After about 15 minutes of on and off attempts to engage his friend in conversation, the student being harassed actually got up from his seat and sat in a seat away from his friend and the distraction. This was unbelievable to me, but exactly what my speech that morning was all about. My speech discusses the ideas of Motivating Yourself to make the right decision and pushing yourself to do so. I can only imagine that this was a diffuclt decision to walk away from his friend, but he did the right thing and for the betterment of himself as well as the workshop as a whole.
Never in my 9 years of speaking, have I seen someone walk away from a chatter, but at Annette Street Public School, I got to see intelligent decision making from a 13 or 14 year old. After the workshop I took him aside and commended him for his actions and he said he just did what he thought was right. Bravo!