Healthy Living…

August 22nd, 2009

In order to put my health transition into perspective, I feel like I need to give you a bit of backdrop to the story. I’ve never been a healthy, overly active person. Ever. I was always active with student council-type activities, but never with physically demanding workouts. From an eating perspective, let me explain my diet during my High School/University years:

In High School, breakfast rarely existed. It would mean losing an extra 10 minutes sleep, so forget breakfast. Lunch was probably Kraft Dinner (Mac & Cheese for you Americans) and dinner was probably fish sticks and fries, hot dogs, pizza or A LOT of McDonalds Quarter Pounder combos. I had been sick with stomach viruses in my last year of High School and somehow, despite my horrendous diet, I spent most of the year hovering at around 105 lbs. Yes, that’s right, I was underweight for a girl.

In University, all alone at Western and with a massive meal card to play with, I ate a burger and fries combo every single day. Not 5 days a week or 6…no, every single day! Every 2 days I had a personal pan pizza and every week I would split a large Dominoes pepperoni pizza with 1 of 3 people. That was my diet. Have you vomited yet?

I don’t mention these items to brag about what a sexy metabolism I had but merely to illustrate the point that health and healthy living was about as far off the radar as Jack and Kate and the Island on Lost. By the time my 1st year at Western was done I had surpassed the Frosh-15 and was up to 135 lbs.

As my University years progressed, I began adding some health to the meals. I was eating my world-famous GCP (Grilled-Chicken Pasta with veggies, no sauce) almost every night of the week and was only having burger combos once to twice a week. Still though, the overall health of what I was eating was not great and I still was getting little exercise (walking to and from campus about 15 mins. each way).

Since my graduation in 2004, my weight had fluctuated between 140 to 145 and I never seemed to be able to do enough to bring it down. I had made strides to change my diet more dramatically over the last year, introducing salmon, shrimp and tilapia as replacements for beef, ribs and even chicken on occasion. My bagels and bread became whole grain instead of white and an apple became an almost regular part of my lunch. Despite these changes (which as you can imagine, are HUGE for someone with a ridiculous diet like I once had), I still couldn’t drop the weight. This was due mostly to still snacking with cookies, ice cream and of course….MCDONALDS!

As I had been feeling my age of late, realizing I’m closer to 30 than I am to 20, this year brought some personal self-image concerns. I wasn’t pleased with the extra spare-tire I was lugging around, how tired I was after speeches and travel, my inability to get through a 60 minute squash game without huffing and puffing and seeing stars. For a couple months I had been saying to myself, I’ve got to do some more dramatic, impactful changes. I’m a Motivational Speaker for crying out loud!!!! MOTIVATE YOURSELF!

My breaking point came when I went to wear a new pair of pants I bought during my last speaking road trip in the U.S. I bought a pair of pants that fit fine when I bought them in early May. They were…comfortable. The first week of July I had a birthday party to attend and I decided it was time to bust out these sexy new pants and show em off. I could barely close the button. When I did, my gut hung over it like Homer Simpson in a bathing suit. Enough was enough.

The next day I decided it was time to take positive steps forward towards my goal of weight loss instead of taking negative steps backwards. I wasn’t going to diet, drop meals from my diet or be unhealthy. I was going to for once, take care of my body and turn it into the system of health it deserves to be. So what did I do? I thought about each facet of my life where destructive steps backwards could be replaced with positive forward steps. I began working out. That’s right. Me. David Major. No really. I ran. I actually got on a treadmill and ran!

I ran 20 minutes a day (not including warm-up/cool down) every other day. Within 3 weeks I was up to running 30 minutes a day and had even increased my speed. I was running on average 3.5 miles per day or close to a marathon every 2 weeks. With each workout I was burning 300-400 calories plus firing my metabolism up for hours following the workout. Because I was trying to target my gut, following each workout I would also do between 150-200 ab exercises to really focus on toning the area. Between prepping for the workout and showering the sweat off, the whole process takes 60-75 minutes. Well, well worth it.

My diet barely changed. The key difference was cutting out the extras and limiting the type of snacking I was doing. When my transition began, we had 2 boxes of cookies in the house. 10 weeks later, we still have 2 full boxes of cookies! My caloric intake for the day is supposed to be 2100-2200 calories. I found myself eating closer to 1300-1400 calories/day. Not because I was starving myself, but I was actually eating MORE!! AND more often! The difference was WHAT I was eating. My bagels and bread switched to flax instead of whole grain or the dreaded white (cue evil music). Pasta dinners were reduced to once per week instead of the 2-3 previously and were replaced with an extra fish dinner usually served with couscous or quinoa (ever heard of Quinoa? Neither had I. Google it! It’s a superfood). My McD/Harveys/Burger King trips were cut down to 1 every 2 weeks or so; pizza is almost completely out and hot dogs have been twice since the summer began. No ribs (I miss my ribs) and only 1 steak. The cookies stayed in their box because the biggest change was the introduction of a massive amount of fruit into the diet. Whereas previously in the house we may have apples and bananas, we now had those plus watermelon, strawberries, canteloupe and blueberries. Ice cream was replaced with fruit smoothies. Mmmmm smoothies!

My goal at the start of the summer was to drop 5 pounds. 8 weeks later and I’m down 10-11 pounds having hit 130 on the scale this morning. My pants don’t fit…at all. I’ve had to add another hole into my belt and my pants still fall down. If you see me on tour giving a speech, you may notice my sport coats look 2 sizes too big and that my pants look like they’re falling off me…they are (and they are). So I suppose the only disadvantage is that I now need to replace my wardrobe. Of course though, it is a well worthwhile sacrifice of $$$ for health and fitness.

The most important aspect of all this is to keep in mind that I don’t consider what I’ve done to be a diet, I consider it a lifestyle change. I’ve decided for once to take control of my body and my health. I’m in the best shape of my life with my resting heart rate hovering somewhere in the 51-54 beats per minute range and I feel like I have more energy than ever. I also personally feel so much better about myself. When you feel comfortable looking in the mirror, you feel good about yourself. However, even if you look good, you may not be HEALTHY. Putting the right food in your body and spending the right amount of time working out are vital not just to your health but your own personal perception of sense of worth. Feelings of worth are often linked with your own physical appearance and so I encourage all readers in blog land to take ownership of your own bodies.

So what does this all mean? Well, over the months to come, I hope to hear from all of you about workouts, foods, etc. that you use to keep yourself in shape. What works for you? What doesn’t? What motivational problems do you have with healthy living? Do you find it easy to MOTIVATE YOURSELF to workout? If so, what’s your secret? Etc., etc.

Like I said, I’ve made a lifestyle transition and my hope is that this blog can do the same for others!

Where have I been all summer?

August 13th, 2009

Next week I have my first speech on my 10th season of Motivational Speaking and it’s hard to believe that the summer is almost over! This has to have been one of my busiest and yet most bland summers of recent memory. I didn’t do much in terms of outdoors activities, vacations, etc. Spent a night camping, a night at a cottage, but outside of that it has been WORK, WORK, WORK!

I’ve always made the claim that the summer is my busiest time despite the fact that I don’t actually do any speeches and there’s no doubt that this has been the case. The past few weeks I’ve been working 15 hour days, 7 days a week in an effort to get the schedule booked up for the year. I’m happy to say I have some MAJOR (haha pun) speeches booked for the new year including a trip to Texas for the Texas Association of Student Councils’ Annual Advisors’ Workshop. This will mark my first advisors exclusive Conference and I am VERY excited! It’s a new field to break into and should be a great group of people to work with over a weekend. I’ll also be giving a talk to advisors at the Maryland Association of Student Councils’ (ASC) State Conference in February when I keynote for the crowd and potentially for West Virginia’s ASC in October. If the West Virginia Conference comes through, it will mark my 3rd time in less than a year that I’ve been the keynote for a MAJOR (haha) Conference in West Virginia, having spoken for the SADD Conference last fall and RAZE (tobacco prevention) in June. It looks like it’s going to be the year of the advisor as I’m also in discussions with California to bring me out for the California Activity Directors Association (CADA) for their spring Conference in Reno–no Vegas, but somehow I’ll manage! :)

All in all, I’m excited. Some great opportunities in some great new places and a great opportunity to improve myself as a speaker and as a fountain of student leadership information. My goals for my 10th year are 100 speeches in 20 different States/Provinces and to develop 1 new speech…a combo healthy living/Motivate Yourself talk that will combine my original speech and my new passion…HEALTHY LIVING! To find out more about my newfound love of working out and eating right, tune in next time…

Back to the grind!

News and Notes…

June 2nd, 2009

I’m about a week into my promotional season and I’m already starting to get a sense for what’s going to work and what won’t. There seem to be a few States that have REALLY been hit hard by the economic crisis. More than I had anticipated. So now, my job becomes about getting creative to make sure that finances don’t get in the way of working with students.

I’ve decided I’m going to try to focus a little more on Leadership Conferences for the 2009-2010 school year. While you’re already dealing with partially if not fully Motivated students, there just seems to be such a vast array of Conferences that need speakers. So why not me? :)

2 weeks until I head down to West Virginia and I’m looking forward to getting as much accomplished as possible in terms of bookings prior to the Conference. I’ve always maintained that this job could keep me busy 24/7, 365 days a year and currently I don’t think I’ve ever as strongly agreed with that statement as I do today. It’s almost like a, “where do I begin?” mentality. But as always, I await the challenge!

A few quick observations and notes:

  • Tragic news about Air France. It very eerily reminds me of Lost and is the reason I’m still not a perfectly comfortable flyer.
  • Sacha Baron Cohen is a brilliant marketer. Whether the stunt at the MTV Movie Awards was staged or real, everyone will talk about it all week.
  • Conan O’Brien is the best sketch comic on late night. Colbert is still my favourite, but it was great to have Conan back last night.
  • If the Toronto Blue Jays are any indication, you’re never as good as when you’re going good and you’re never as bad as when you’re going bad. That’s why it’s so important to stay grounded and self aware.

    Have a great and productive day everyone!

  • First speech in Toronto…

    May 28th, 2009

    Yesterday morning I had the opportunity to speak at Annette Street Public School in Toronto, Ontario. I live about 10 minutes outside of the city of Toronto, but amazingly over the course of the last 9 years, this was my 1st speech at a Toronto public school!! For some reason over the years it has been easier to be booked in California, the North West Territories or even China than into a Toronto public school, so this was a really big treat for me. I’m not sure what has caused the delay, but my best guess is a lack of funds within the School Board.

    The task yesterday was a keynote speech to kick off Career Day for the grade 7’s and 8’s, followed by 2 workshops on public speaking. During the second public speaking workshop I had one of the coolest experiences of my speaking career. As a speaker, I’m used to students chatting with their friends in the audience from time to time. You just use a few different techniques to try to silence them and regain their focus. Yesterday, one of the students in the workshop was trying to talk to his friend, but his friend actually kept shushing him and telling him to stop talking. Normally, I would have stepped in, but I was so fascinated by this other students response that I was curious to see what would happen. After about 15 minutes of on and off attempts to engage his friend in conversation, the student being harassed actually got up from his seat and sat in a seat away from his friend and the distraction. This was unbelievable to me, but exactly what my speech that morning was all about. My speech discusses the ideas of Motivating Yourself to make the right decision and pushing yourself to do so. I can only imagine that this was a diffuclt decision to walk away from his friend, but he did the right thing and for the betterment of himself as well as the workshop as a whole.

    Never in my 9 years of speaking, have I seen someone walk away from a chatter, but at Annette Street Public School, I got to see intelligent decision making from a 13 or 14 year old. After the workshop I took him aside and commended him for his actions and he said he just did what he thought was right. Bravo!

    My web-site looked OLDDDDD!!

    May 22nd, 2009

    So why didn’t anyone tell me how bad my program info pages looked? Before I sent out my mass mailing to some 40,000 schools this summer and let them know about my 10 for 10 special–see previous post–I decided to take a quick peek at my web-site to make sure that all of my program info was current and made sense. As the first sentence of this paragraph would suggest…it certainly was not!

    I realized that half the info pages were actually missing info!!! Every page has/had a downloadable flyer, but some pages were missing pictures (good pictures at that) and only contained a general, brief description. I’m pretty happy with how they look now. Much better formatting with a few pretty pictures of my mug! One I get a bit more video on my hands during the next few weeks, I’ll certainly post it, but all in all, I am MUCH happier with my web-site now that it’s finally gotten a massive program info overhaul.

    This has been a very productive week as I try to gear up for a busy summer of promotions and bookings. I’m trying to clear out all the clutter that has piled up while I’ve been on the road and it’s great to be able to “Motivate Myself” to accomplish these tasks. Now that they’re out of the way, expect a lot of E-Mails coming your way. Next year is my 10th anniversary of giving Motivational Speeches and I’m looking forward to making it my biggest, best and most successful year of all! Of course…I’m counting on all of you to make that happen!

    10th Anniversary!

    May 13th, 2009

    Over the past couple of months, I’ve been doing a lot of reflecting back. Somehow and as crazy as it seems, I’ve been on the road speaking for youth for 9 full years now. Beginning in August, I will be kicking off my 10th year! INSANITY! When I first got started, it was to help out the High School Leadership Conference I was planning and to help out some friends in their schools. Who woulda thought that I’d not only still be speaking to youth today, but doing it fulltime?? It may have been you, but it definitely was not me!

    I was trying to think of a way to celebrate and decided that instead of asking all of my previous clients to give me presents, that I’d just give everyone else a present. In my attempt to be a witty marketer, I’ve decided to offer a 10 for 10 special! It’s a 10% discount off all bookings for the next school year. Will this mean more business? Less business? Not sure. I just decided it would be fun to give something back for all of the support I’ve been given over the years.

    I love what I do and love having the chance to work with some INCREDIBLE students and staff, so I figure why not try to give a bit more incentive to make that happen more during the 2009-2010 school year. I’ve got some of the literature up on my site…now I just have to figure out how to get the banner/images up as well!

    Next step? Letting YOU know about it!

    So this is what an 8 hour day is like?

    April 15th, 2009

    I had a speech in Sydenham, Ontario yesterday which is about 3 hours from my house and to cut costs for the schools involved, we put the speech after 11 am so I could drive in an out on the same day. If it was an 8 am speech, there’s no way I could have gotten up at 3 am (that’s usually my bedtime) to get ready and drive out there so this was a nice compromise.

    It was weird because with 6 hours total of driving, coupled with an hour long speech and an hour of set-up and shut-down it ended up being exactly an 8 hour day. Certainly I’ve had longer days of travel and of grinding away at my computer, but this ended up being a pretty tight little 8 hour package. Now I know what it’s like to be a working man!! I thought about it on the drive home and realized I haven’t actually done a stable full day of work since my last year of High School. Sure I had classes in University, but spread out and with days off. Even when I worked for the Member of Parliament, I typically worked afternoons, evenings and weekends. Somehow I’ve managed to spend the last 10 years abiding by no set schedule. FREEDOM????

    I was definitely happy with how the speech turned out and had a lot of kids rushing the stage after and E-Mailing me last night. It was a nice day that will lead into next week (my birthday week) where this year I’ll be spending my birthday in Sudbury, Ontario!! Last year it was Glasgow, Montana and this year, Sudbury! Do I know how to pick em or what!?

    Got lucky with flights…

    April 7th, 2009

    So while I was sitting here posting a message on my Blog at the National Conference on Student Leadership in the Westin in Boston, I looked up at their big board of flights and noticed that all of the flights going in and out of JFK in New York were cancelled. Knowing that I had a flight going through JFK to Buffalo, I quickly got on the phone to Delta and they informed me my flight had also been cancelled. Thankfully, I had gotten to them in time and they were able to push my ticket over to US Airways on a direct flight to Buffalo. I NEVER check my flights ahead of time, so this was an amazingly freakish coincidence that the Westin happened to have a board and I happened to look at it! If it wasn’t for that board, I would have been stranded in Boston for the night and unable to make my next gig in Buffalo the next morning.

    Hooray for luck!

    National Conference on Student Leadership

    April 6th, 2009

    So I was given an amazing opportunity to run a couple of workshops for the National Conference on Student Leadership in Boston this past weekend. The NCSL is a Conference for College student leaders from literally around the world. It’s big time! The kind of event speakers drool at the opportunity to present for. There were students there mostly from North America, but also from Puerto Rico, Egypt, Rwanda, Australia and of course CANADA! Holy small world, but one of the three Canadian students that were in attendance heard me speak at the Canadian Conference on Student Leadership in Calgary this past fall. American readers take note…this is merely a coincidence and we don’t all know each other! :)

    As per typical major Conference protocol, I had to be on my game from start to finish. This was a HUGE opportunity to meet and make connections with hundreds of students who have hiring and firing power! I would be performing only 2 smaller workshops (about 180 people total between the two) but it’s very different for me because it doesn’t give me the chance to show off my STUFF on the main stage. One of the workshops was my event planning workshop which I just altered a little bit for the College audience. This was my first time performing it for a College audience, but I knew the material (FREE STUFF, sponsorship, marketing) was still universal, just with a few tweaks.

    The big and crazy workshop was my public speaking workshop. Now, I’ve had it on my web-site as an offer for the past 18 months. Unfortunately, everyone seems to love my event planning and leadership styles workshop so much that no one has ever asked me to run the workshop. So when NCSL asked me to run it last fall, I couldn’t say no, but had to hope that someone would book that workshop ahead of time. Of course…no one did! So here I was at one of the biggest and most important Conferences of my life testing out new material on an audience that you have to be as sharp as possible for.

    I spent the week prior to NCSL dedicated to fine tuning my material and trying to amass as much interactive information as possible. The results were out of this world! As great as I felt about how the workshop would work, I was blown away by the response and the results! The students and staff were hanging on my every word and writing down the points and tips I was giving at a feverish pace. See to me, the information I was giving (body language, posture, practice, practice, practice, etc.) comes naturally to me and I guess I forget that there are so many people out there who have never been exposed to the material. One of the students event came up to me after the workshop and said, “thank you for being the highlight of my conference”!!! That was enough evidence for me and I had a big grin on my face the rest of the day. It was an amazing feeling to be essentially testing out new material and have it work so amazingly well!

    In the end, it was an amazing weekend. The workshops went better than I could have imagined…I made some great connections and contacts and had the opportunity to hang out with some terrific students from Purdue, Fulton-Montgomery CC and the University of Calgary among other places. Next step? Convincing one of the schools to hire me at the same time they’re playing a basketball game against Duke! I’d do that gig for free in exhange for tickets! Let the dream live on… :)

    My bad…

    March 16th, 2009

    I know I slipped away from the Blog for a couple of weeks. I joined up on Twitter (www.twitter.com/motiv8yourself), the latest social networking craze. I’ve been examining it as a replacement to this Blog, but really I just don’t get Twitter. There’s a couple of cool celebrities on there (Shaq, Jimmy Fallon and Rainn Wilson come to mind), but apart from that it’s basically a slower and more useless way to update the world on your life. At least here on this Blog I can write in complete sentences and not be bogged down by character limits (though some may not think that that’s a bad thing).

    Here’s the thing about Twitter and all social networking sites….experts say we’re getting worse at communicating with humans because we now speak less to each others faces and more to our computers. So when we use MSN or AIM or Yahoo messengers to talk, they are full conversations but through the computer. Then came Facebook, MySpace, Nexopia, Tagged, etc. and people were able to post their entire life story on the web. The communication was done through wall posts or comments and so conversations were now disjointed and spread out over days and weeks. Now we have Twitter. No profiles, no info on yourself, just 140 characters on what is going on in your life. We’ve gone from full 1 on 1 conversations to 140 character updates. I think I’m getting old…because I’m starting to agree with the experts…our methods of communication and ability to communicate does seem to be slowly deteriorating.

    Anyways…short Blog tonight…I’m in Liverpool, New York which is basically a suburb of Syracuse and I’ve got a speech and a couple of workshops in Phoenix, New York about 20 mins. away tomorrow. It’s a second chance to try out my leadership fundamentals workshop so I’m excited to test it out again. The first time seemed to go great and I’m looking forward to seeing how it goes a second time.

    I’ll update more on what I’ve been doing the last couple of weeks later this week. See you from Toronto!